Wednesday, July 24, 2019

The 4th of July

The 4th of July is the best! The kids helped me decorate their bikes for the neighborhood 4th of July bike parade the night before. Benson *helped* fix Lindy's bike, while Miles actually did. :) He has had to become so handy with bikes because A. I don't know how to, and B. Richie does but frequently does not have the time. So although his efforts are not always conclusive, he usually gets it right 90% of the time. He feels so proud, and so do I! :)

I cheered the kids on during the parade and then we had breakfast with our neighborhood. It's one of my favorite things that happens all year. I just wish we sang a patriotic song before we ate, so that I could have a good cry. :)

When we got home, Miles pointed out to me that I forgot to provide water balloons (like I typically have in the past). So to bridge the time between then and night, Richie set up an awesome obstacle course in our backyard, and then turned on the sprinklers. Gwen and her neighbor friend loved it, Lindy loved it till she fell off a beam and got a sweet goose-egg over her eye, Benson was napping, and Miles was almost too-cool-for-school.

Half way through the day, I realized I should have called Ben and Becca to join in our festivities. So we threw a dinner together last minute and had a great time together. The kids played video games and watched shows, while Richie and I talked with B&B. Then we lit our traditional (minimal) fireworks of pop-its and sparklers. Not super exciting, but our neighbors did put on their annual, epic fireworks party the night before, so we got to see some good fireworks then.

We went to bed happy, dirty, and exhausted.

Monday, July 8, 2019

Second half of June

Just some pictures of garden produce! Every little harvest we get it exciting! Our garden became overrun with volunteer squash plants of different varieties. When they were tiny, we decided to just let them grow and were excited for extra produce. But as time went on they started to overtake things, choking out the plants we really wanted. So this is a picture of the garden before we ripped out most of the vine-y things. We just don't have enough room in our tiny garden plot to grow pumpkins and the like. Now it's less of a jungle, and you can actually walk between rows!


I am a very un-skilled seamstress. In the highest degree. I wish I had that talent, without all the effort it takes to learn it. I desperately want someone to teach my kids! But I can teach them how to sew straight lines on the sewing machine, and that's a start. They've been asking to sew for years, so this is progress. I cut up a bunch of old jeans and other tough fabric scraps we had, and we're going to make ourselves a new picnic blanket, since our current one is shredded. The kids feel very grown up using the machine and are very excited about the new blanket.


Another uke concert for Miles! This time it was at Bluffdale Park, with free treats for everyone. Which made the wonderful (but sometimes lengthy) concerts more do-able with small children. He did a great job.



We checked out a new (to us) park in Daybreak. It was really cool, we may have to go back again. It had this "natural" creek running through it that kept the kids so entertained, they hardly checked out the actual playground equipment. Benson had to be torn away kicking and screaming.



Richie's Mom volunteers at a weekly workshop for people going through cancer who want to treat it more holistically. She wanted to put on a night of music and good food that would be uplifting for them. She arranged lots of musical numbers from those of us in the family. Richie and the kids performed "All of Me" which they've been working on for family band. Gwen had the music down, she could have done it blindfolded. But when she got up in front of a biggish crowd, she froze a little and stumbled through the entire piece. She was in tears half way through and ran off "the stage" immediately. I was in back and couldn't get to her. Luckily Uncle Jacob comforted her while Dad sang a solo on his uke. Then he invited Gwen up to sing a song with him, "If Wishes Were Horses" (One of our favorites, and one that Gwen and Richie love singing together). I wasn't sure she would be up for it, but she got up there and sang every word perfectly, even without practicing. I was so proud of her resilience!!!


If I haven't mentioned it before, Miles is....moody these days. I'm blaming it on pre-teen hormones, but holy cow, it's really throwing us for a loop. On this particular day, he was upset over something really small, and it escalated until he decided he'd run away. I'm documenting this awesome runaway note here for his future posterity. :) He got so far as to pack his backpack, but then decided he'd stay home.


Richie is at a new school this year, and they all had to take training on how to handle kids with different types of disabilities. This picture cracks me up. Him and Chris Beames, holding up someone who is "fainting". They had to get really up close and personal with each other. :)


Miles is playing rec center basketball again this summer. He says he really loves basketball, but doesn't ever practice at home. So when it's time for games, he's still a little lost. :) And he's so polite that if someone from another team tries to take the ball from him, he readily gives it to them. :) We'll have to get him into some skills camps. He's improved a lot from last year though and it's fun to watch him out there.


The ward campout came around again. And once again I opted not to go. :) Camping with a baby sounds awful. Plus it was really cold. Richie is a saint and took the other 4, and camped in the van. They had a fantastic time camping, and I had a fantastic time with Davy, deep cleaning the kitchen without interruption.


Richie was home from work one day, so I let him take the van in to get some repairs done so that I didn't have to haul 5 kids to the dealership and entertain them while the car was being fixed. He decided to bring Benson along for some one-on-one time. He really needed it. The older kids have been doing swimming lessons and he doesn't get to participate and feels left out. So this was fun for him to feel special. They went to Scheels during the down time and had a blast.


The older 3 loved their swimming lessons and improved a lot. I was sad I couldn't sit and watch them learn like I have in the past, but Benson makes that nearly impossible. Especially with a backyard playground that he's not allowed on, and a pool he's not allowed in. Luckily the lessons have been close by so I can just drop the kids off for their lesson and come home. I did however get to witness Lindy's signature diving board move, "The Bellyflop", and let me tell ya, she really commits to that flop!

Thursday, June 20, 2019

First Half of June

Check out my handsome boys!!! They were all unintentionally matching last Sunday, so I had to snap some pictures!



My dancing girls! They had their year-end recital and rocked it! Lindy felt so nervous, and so excited! Performing already seems to be "old hat" to Gwen, so she was cool as a cucumber, even when we realized we brought two different size shoes for her and she had to dance barefoot. :) My favorite things by far were watching them smile on stage and watching Lindy correct the other girls in her group to try and get them into the correct spots (so Lindy). Lindy wants to try Karate next year, and we may be switching Gwen to a different studio this upcoming year, so this may have been our last "No Sweat" dance recital. ? And in keeping with tradition, I snapped a couple of pictures of them in their costumes before they danced instead of paying money for the professional ones. :) Hopefully that doesn't come back to haunt me.


Park Days! All the time!


Gwen had her end of year piano recital. Her first one with Sister Costanza, who she adores. She did a great job and got the award for most determined...I think.. :)


For the past year, Lindy has been participating in an online preschool called Upstart. It was academically beneficial yes, but mostly I just wanted something for her to work on during school hours that helped her feel a part of school time and feel capable. Sometimes it was a struggle, but for the most part I think she enjoyed it. She felt pretty special at the little awards ceremony they held for the graduates.


Our neighbors have a pool pass to the county pool and go every day. Obviously my kids are jealous. I told them I don't think I can handle taking all 5 of you by myself. But I agreed to try it once and then we'd see if buying a pool pass would make sense. Miles and Gwen were terrific helpers with Benson, which I assure you is no small job. It was actually do-able. But still not a super pleasant experience for me. I'm too anxious I guess. Kids and water scare me. But it was a good outing, and I'm sure we'll go again sporadically.


These 3 high school friends and I used to get together about once a month when we first moved here. It was a life saver to me. We haven't gotten together for about 2 years because of the craziness of life and one of them moved to Texas. But the stars aligned and we were all able to get together this last week. We agreed that it would have been nicer if just us gals had gone out to dinner or something so we could chat uninterrupted, but we made it work with what we had, and it was great to see each other again! And check out the 14 kids between us! hA!


Richie remembers selling Father's Day Pies as a scout project/fundraiser growing up. We decided to try it this year. I wrote more about it on my other blog, but here's the reader's digest version. The kids were involved in the entire process; shopping for ingredients, doing the math to determine how much each pie would cost, what we should charge, and what are total profit was, taking pictures and advertising, actually making the pies, clean up and delivery. It was a great summer project for us! Lindy and Benson ended up staying at Grandma Garner's most of the day since Richie was window washing all day and couldn't help manage the chaos. They helped a little, but then it was me, Miles and Gwen (&Davy) working alongside each other all day. It was tiring, and awesome! They ended up making $180 total. They felt so empowered by the whole process, I think we'll definitely do it again.



Random pics of the kids. :)

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